Jacquline Ard (Ontiveros)
Introspective Housewife
2 min readFeb 1, 2024

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What meme "character" do you have to deal with most in your life?

There are several ways to interpret the tradgirl vs doomer girl in this meme. It generally is a romantic choice between one or the other, but that’s not the case for me. I view it as striking a balance between two extremes inside my psyche. Those tradwife vs doomer girl memes really do irritate me because they represent a war inside myself.

I’ve already stated that I am a real-life hybrid between a doomer and a trad which is why I consider myself a doomer tradwife. The doomer tradwife Wojak is portrayed as a long, raven-haired tomboyish woman with a nose piercing, reading glasses, a flannel jacket over a black hoodie, and sometimes a rifle. It’s still not quite me, but it hits closer than the typical portrayal of a tradwife with a floral dress, rosy cheeks, and long blonde hair. I wish I did live on a homestead though. Living in the middle of a rural town is not as hardcore.

I don’t think I need to mention any of the associated issues with being both black-pilled and red-pilled (“based” variety). I think this Wojak represents me better than the others. She’s just been feminized:

She’s not a meme, but she could be. That would be my meme. This is me as a doomer tradwife, and I do wish there were more memes about people like me.

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Jacquline Ard (Ontiveros)
Introspective Housewife

“It is the chiefest point of happiness that a man is willing to be what he is.” ~Erasmus | www.ardpro.us/